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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Speaking - Daniel's style is very engaging and kept our large group focused</image:title>
      <image:caption>Daniel just facilitated a workshop on Rapid Prototyping at Swiss Re for an internal event dedicated to Innovation. He did a phenomenal job, keeping the perfect balance between knowledge sharing and hands-on activities, concepts and practical tips. Attendees were able to leave with something concrete they could do differently in their day to day job and an appetite to explore the topic further Charlotte Fitzgerald, Marketing Director at Swiss Re</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Speaking - Your energy and intelligence made all 70 people in the room feel like you were working one on one with them...Excellent!"</image:title>
      <image:caption>the workshop you facilitated at SMASH was very powerful. I heard our attendees bringing so many of the key elements your outlined into other sessions at the summit. Creating environments for sustainable and actionable conversations is key to any organization, but in senior care it's mission critical. Bailey Beeken, President, Validated Learnings, LLC - Senior Care Summits</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Workshops - Daniel took us on an inspiring, energizing, and introspective journey</image:title>
      <image:caption>Daniel designed an offsite session for our small but mighty team of creative strategists, designers, developers, and project managers. In a short amount of time, he earned our trust and took us on an inspiring, energizing, and introspective journey that deepened how we collaborate and communicate with each other on a daily basis. His facilitation, expertise, and guidance was magical, invisible, light-touch, and thoroughly transformative. I had watched his work from afar for so long and now I feel very grateful to have experienced it first hand! Thank you! Sruthi Sadhujan, Design &amp; Strategy for Social Impact at Hyperakt</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Workshops - Daniel really helped us change the way we do business.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Daniel facilitated a Design Thinking workshop for the team I was working on… He did exactly what an innovation coach should do - teach, encourage, motivate, and get out of the way! I would recommend working with Daniel for any group eager for change. Cal Austin, Director Idea Sprint Lab, Pfizer</image:caption>
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